The ascetic does not desire and desire, for the blessings were created for him. He sees them as a veil placed upon him, so he is repelled from them, so he does not desire them, and she desires them because she knows that they were created for him. The ascetic takes them out of kindness and selflessness if he is of a position. Because blessings are only desired by the one whom you see fulfilling their rights, which is thanking the benefactor for what God has bestowed upon him .